Education, what the word education is? Education is being a gentleman, a true gentleman for society, and trying to treat the society same as we want to be treated. Education is not something that you’re so much educated and you don’t even have manners that how to treat your elders, how to give them respect and so on. People nowadays are considered so much educated but they lack patience and respect towards society and their elders.
Being an educated citizen of our society, one must know how to treat others also because nowadays everyone is educated but without manners.
EDUCATION FOR THE SAKE OF A DEGREE OR A GOOD JOB
Yes, it’s true nowadays people just study for the sake of a good job or a piece of paper, yes you hear it right for a piece of paper because without manners our degree is nothing more than a piece of paper. People become arrogant and treat others so badly that now they become a king and every single person who is below them is their prisoner. This is not about every educated person but most of them are like that and that’s not the right thing to do.
CAUSES, EFFECTS, AND BLACKNESS IN CHILD’S DEVELOPMENT
Why and how lack ness develops in a person is also very important to be discussed because a child doesn’t misbehave like that when born but there are some causes, effects, and roles behind it. If we as parents, elders, or any citizen treat and nourish a child the best way possible then the result will be fruitful. Here are some roles to be discussed:
- Role of parents or elders.
- Â Role of society.
- Â Role of friends or the gathering.
ROLE OF PARENTS AND ELDERS
The role of parents and the elders is one of the most important in all this. Parents nourish their children and tell them or teach them how to treat their elder ones. They must stop them when they first see them talking badly or loudly with their elders and make them understand that it is not good to talk with them like that or how to respect them. As a child, they adopt by their parents as well because the child is a blank piece of paper, what we will write in their mind it will work like that. So the elders should be careful with their words and actions.
ROLE OF SOCIETY
The role of society is also involved in all these situations sometimes parents nourish their children so well but the involvement of society is there. As we all know that children pick things so quickly whether it is good or bad. As it is important in which surroundings and environment a child is raised or growing up in. A positive and best environment is necessary for a child’s development as it gives them self-confidence, how to treat people, the best and ever-lasting relations, etc. try to give your child a healthy and happy environment so that they’ll pick the good from it.
ROLE OF FRIENDS OR GATHERINGS
The role of friends and gatherings a child is sitting in is really important. For example: if a child is facing any problem and want to discuss it with anyone they will not first go to their parents but their friends and if their friends are good then they will suggest them good but if they are not sincere or not good towards them they will not suggest them good intentionally or unintentionally they will become a reason for their bad. We should watch our child’s gathering whether it is good or bad. We also have to teach them the difference between good and bad so that they will choose accordingly.
Another issue or question also raised that why education is everywhere but not the educated ones.
Yes, it is true that nowadays people are educated and have so many degrees in their hands but their minds are empty. As I discussed earlier that their main purpose of getting an education is just for the sake of a degree or getting a good job and also discussed the roles and reasons behind their development. The development of a child is not only in the parent’s hands but society and friends also play a really important role in it. All of them make a person a truly educated gentleman who treats others so nicely and helps them when they need it.
PRAISING A CHILD GOOD OR BAD?
Another question raised that, is whether praising your child is good or bad. So the answer is yes praising your child is so good and beneficial but sometimes it becomes worst. Because if we praise our child on their good deeds that’s good obviously but it is also observed that some parents even don’t stop their child from doing wrong or something which is not good for their nourishment and they just say that he is just a child and learn step by step, how the child will learn if we don’t make him learn? If we will not stop our young ones from the beginning, it will become their habit and it will go to its worst and makes problems and these kinds of children will become a problem for society as well. So be gentle and good towards your child and make them friends so they will listen to you more.
CONCLUSION
I will conclude or sum up my topic by saying that education is really important for every individual but try to develop good habits in your child because the development of the child is a necessary part of every child’s nourishment. They’re the ones who built the nation and can achieve more than we expected if we treat them well and stop them early on their first mistake so it will never become their habit. Because society is based upon us, as elders it is our responsibility and we’re the ones who are the makers of society if we will be good towards them then we will get the same. Getting an education or making your child educated is not enough but teaching them the difference between what is wrong and what is right and how to treat others is also an essential part of a child’s nourishment. We should also praise our children when needed but also restrict them when needed. We should also give them a healthy and happy environment and also watch what they are doing on social media and what kind of friends they’re having because as earlier we discussed that friends also play a very important role in all this. Try to make them friends and sort out things on time so that things will go much easier and the child will grow up like a true gentleman for society and the family as well.
